Knowing Your Value As A Woman!

Hey Loves,

I've uploaded my second podcast so take a listen! In this episode I speak about the importance of knowing our value as women and you'll hear my in-the-moment self-reflection of when I allowed devaluation to creep into my life 😮! I'd never before asked this question of myself, but when I began to evaluate... whew, did I have an eye opener 🤦!

If you haven't already, I encourage you to pause and take a moment to assess your value; as a SINGLE individual, WIFE and/or mother, or in LIFE in general!

Do you know that you are valuable??? Do others around you know your value? How do you gage the answer to either of these questions? And if you're not as valued as you'd like to be, what do you need to shift to reach that point?

My Why: I've got two Rugrats who are looking to me to give them value! And they need to see an image of mommy; a valuable mommy! They're stuck with me whether they want to be or not 🤣! Even when I drag them to the office and quarantine myself into a conference room afterhours and load them with pizza 🍕, YouTuber Carina Garcia's slime videos and Bubble Guppies!

(Of course that doesn't stop them from busting in while I'm recording... And please excuse the cluttered desk in the image below. I'm in the beginning of grants season at work and everything is haywire! It was either straighten up for a photo op or snap a pic in the moment and get to recording. I chose the latter because I was on a time limit before their patience wore thin and they started attacking me with Stewie-like calls of, "Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom!" 😮😂😭)

Click here to listen and I hope you enjoy!

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